I’m not deleting this. I know it’s dramatic. I know someone will comment "sir, this is a Wendy's." But for the other guys reading this, standing on their own invisible baseplates, shoulders aching: try bending your knees. Just a little. Let the cuff pull. Let it hurt. You might find that the pole isn't infinitely tall. It's just a pole. And you are not the weight. You are the person who chose to pick it up. And you can choose to put it down.
I read a post here last week from a user who said the only peaceful moment in the One Bar Prison is the second after you lock the cuff, before your weight settles. That split second of suspension. The choice is made, but the consequences haven't yet arrived. I think that’s the moment I had my first beer at 16. The moment I said "I do." The moment I signed the loan. I keep chasing that split second, but I’ve been standing on the baseplate for a decade. r/one bar prison
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