Beyond the Taboo: A Real Couple’s Guide to Anal Play (Featuring Lustery)
If you are ready to try this with a partner, do not just "go for it." Use this progression:
You need hygiene awareness, not a medical procedure. A quick shower and a finger check is usually enough for most spontaneous sessions. For deeper play, a simple rinse is fine—but obsessing over perfection kills the mood.
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During foreplay, use a lubed thumb or finger to massage the external sphincter. No penetration. Just pressure. Do this while giving oral or a handjob. The goal is to associate anal touch with orgasm.