This isn't rebellion against authority. Paradoxically, it is a request for more authority. The brat acts out not because they want to escape control, but because they want to feel that control exerted. The eye roll, the stuck-out tongue, the deliberate slow walk—these are not escape attempts. They are invitations. Bratdom is a two-person game. Without a partner willing to play, a brat is just annoying.
In a world that often demands we be compliant, quiet, and agreeable, bratdom offers a small, sacred rebellion: the right to be difficult, on purpose, with someone who loves you for it. bratdom
The dynamic requires a Dominant (often called a "Tamer" in these specific circles) who enjoys the chase. The Tamer’s pleasure comes not from instant compliance, but from the process of earning it. The brat throws a verbal jab; the Tamer raises an eyebrow. The brat refuses a direct order; the Tamer issues a consequence. The brat giggles; the Tamer wins. This isn't rebellion against authority