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I used to think that too.

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Read. The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy are the bibles for a reason. I used to think that too

In reality, a safeword is a lifeline. Because sometimes “stop” or “no” might be part of the play (hello, CNC — consensual non-consent), you need an emergency brake. CNC — consensual non-consent)

So whether you’re a rope bunny, a soft Dom, a switch, or just someone who bought handcuffs once (please get the kind with a quick release), welcome.